Russian women tell of abortion issues

It so happened that I needed my first abortion before the birth of my daughter. After she was born I got pregnant again without delay, Without realising it immediately, And when I did I required another abortion. So I know with regards to them.

During my youth most of my friends and I myself were stupid and poorly educated in sexual matters. We doesn't know, for example, How guard ourselves properly. It wasn't done to share with you it with our parents, And no books on the subject had yet been published in our country.

So among my girlftriend, And among other women generally, There were many who could be pregnant for a few weeks, or simply three, Before they begun to suspect anything.

that is, They acknowledged that something strange was happening to them, due to the fact stopped menstruating. But they didn't go to the doctor about it they didn't trust them much, And thought everything would get better by itself.

But in the they had to go to the doctor and by then the only option was to give birth or have a late abortion.

as a whole, The whole Soviet health system 's primary to encourage women to give birth at any cost. and as a result, When you visited the gynaecologist and said you were pregnant but didn't want a child, They immediately started to tell you if you want to not have an abortion, Because you would be crippled and might be unable to have children afterwards.

They tried to influence me not to do it both the doctors and my relatives. I knew that a child was something i did not need, But all these chats weighed down on me. I was 20 years old. It was not easy for me to take deciding. as a whole, My first abortion was a morally difficult get.

When i realised that I was pregnant, My first kind of response was to go and get an abortion. I was having a family, But children were not something I had been preparing for. I was a student and pregnancy was the very last thing I needed.

The thought had never occurred to me that I might become pregnant, considering that, So far as going, I always took terms of useage.

My mother had been advising me to go on the pill, But I never did I was afraid of messing up my hormones and of other aspect.

I visited a clinic, Where a doctor demonstrated that I was pregnant, But said I was during time for a mini abortion. The gynaecologist strongly advised me on an abortion, Because she said I might have a miscarriage.

She even told me my child was unnecessary. "There a wide range of women out there, If you have to a child, another individual will, She said.

On the morning of the day when I was meant to have abortion, I was in a determined mind set. I got prepared, Took factor I needed, And walked slowly to a medical facility. I got to the room where it was meant to occur, But as soon as the nurse came out to see me I suddenly felt very hostile.

I realised that if she tried to touch me, providers hit her. So when she invited me into the surrounding I said No, started my heels and went out.

As I left a medical facility I had one thought: i previously had a good figure, But now it will be able spoilt, plausibly forever.

how, I had a faith based attitude to pregnancy I regarded it as God's will. before getting to that, I had heard from many gynaecologists that I might not be able to have children, But russian woman carrying I was not awfully bothered about it.

I wanted to have a career and it was clear that the appearance of a child could destroy those plans. But it did actually me that if I had an abortion, I might be disciplined for it, And even more might end up being destroyed and after that, quite possibly, There would likely be a void.

I confirm that my mother had two abortions, Before my birth and eventually. But I still think that children are from God. If plus trusted to bear one, What right do this wasn't kill it.

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